Sunday, June 21, 2026

"The Ultimate Father... In My Opinion!"

 I don't know where to, or how to, start, except to say we will soon lose a dear friend and fellow ACCD alumni. Marty Rosenthal is in a hospice with family at his side, and I am told his time is near...

No, I really don't know where to start. I first met Martin in a Jack Leynnwood class at Art Center College of Design in SoCal. He loved drawing cars and took every chance he had to get Jack to fix his illustrations. To be honest, I really didn't think Martin was Art Center material. I wasn't the only artist to feel that way and felt the school was lowering its standards to except someone like Marty.
Kinda snotty, I know, and not really like me.
But, on a personal level, one just couldn't help but love Marty. He was curious about everything unlike many of us, who were on a one track road to illustrative "hell"! Martin D. Rosenthal just had an infectious way about himself that you just couldn't deny. I guess finding cancer in your body at an early age will do that to a person. Living and loving each damn day on this wonderful earth like it was your last.
I try my best to remember that, though I usually fail, miserably!
Because of the recurring cancerous situation, he didn't complete his degree the time frame I did, and I lost track of his life and career until he, one day, drove by my house in South Pasadena, in his cherry black Camaro, I believe, just beaming from ear to ear. He was also smiling because he was gonna get married and that he got hired at an aerospace company in Long Beach and was quite happy striving to be the artist he felt he could be. We met a year or so later at the Salt Shaker, with his new wife and two twin baby girls.
Smiles all around and no cancer in sight!
But, living life in the "long run" ain't always so stable, or pretty. A few years later, he, and others from the art group, were let go at the aerospace plant, and his wife left him and the twins. If he told me about how it all came crashing down, I listened with one ear. All I know is Marty parented those two girls all through their childhood and they grew up to be something any father would be proud of. He took odd jobs where ever he could, went to night school, and finally settled on a substitute teacher job, so he could be with his girls and take care of them.
Both of the twins excelled in school and got scholarships to attend college.
I lost touch with him through most of the late nineties and all through our move back to the bayou. But, I did visit his apartment when the twins were still living with him to let him know that our family was leaving for Louisiana. He told me he was thinking about moving to Phoenix, where his brother lived. The apartment was small, I believe, and, at that time, the bunk bed was in the living room, but everyone seemed healthy and happy and enthusiastic about the future.
We went to a local restaurant to catch up with each other's lives and then he showed my some of his nudes from a life drawing class that he had been taking, over the years, at Long Beach State, I think. I found them to be really well done. I told him that I was proud of his passion to be an artist against all the roadblocks, good and bad, that life put before him.
Seems at least once a year, since Therese, Brian and I moved to the bayou state, he'd call to check in on us. Some time in that decade, he told me the cancer had returned but that it was not going to be a problem. His girls were now on their own and he was moving to Arizona. Finding out that the illness had returned and that, to my knowledge, he was pretty much alone, fighting that battle, my wife and I would call in to check his progress.
He seemed to have licked it again.
When Facebook came along sometime in 2009, Marty was one of my first friends. It was great to be able to keep in touch with all my SoCal friends and especially, Martin. It seemed like he had a good four or five years before the cancer was back, though, at first, Martin didn't think it was serious enough to mention in our posts.
Apparently, it was.
After a year long battle in and out of hospitals, clinics, and home, my friend is, we all are afraid, is giving up the struggle. God, I feel so bad for him. When I hear people say that things happen for a reason, the insane "linebacker" in me comes out. All that Buddha, karma, goes around, comes around simplicity, really fries my ass.There's no sense or justice here.
And, to even suggest such a thing is the ultimate insult to a guy like Marty.
I really love you man, and I will always revere you as a great person and a great friend... Damn!


Monday, December 22, 2025

Steely eyed killer!



 

Friday, August 1, 2025

"Sketches Of A Waitress"...



Good "First Friday" Community Coffee and Donut Get Together, y'all.
Yesterday, after my tooth decision was discussed, made and hopefully finalized, I threw myself upon mercy of The Southside Cafe and my waitress, Gabby, who mentioned the recuperative qualities of an Abita Amber on draught with some fried onion ring can have!
Good choice!
Gabby, who mothered me for the next two hours, honored me with her pose when she saw me sketching the new model airplanes that hover above the bar. I quelled her curiosity about my life as an artist as I attempted to capture the new A-4 model hanging from the ceiling and finish my Reuben.
So, I stopped drawing the plane and started to incorporate Gabby's pose into the picture. It looked interesting, but Gabby liked it enough to request ownership. The back of the sketchpad page was stained with charcoal dust which was why I chose it to play around with. I didn't think it was that good, and offered to do a better rendering without the jet for her to have... for another Abita Amber!
A little later, a elderly woman (elderly as much as I am!), who sitting across from me at another table, said she enjoyed watching me sketch the waitress, and mentioned how good portrait looked. It reminded her about her son who was, "Really good at copying the Mona Lisa!"
I completed the sketch, offered to sign it, and finished my beer! I thanked Gabby for the attention she gave me, took another Tylenol, and split!
Old coffee... so far!

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Friday, July 4, 2025

"Marching Around The House And Strutting Like James Cagney!"

 

Tasty, but hot!
Happy 4th, y'all.

When I was young, amongst the many Patti Page, Bing Crosby, and Glenn Miller Big Bands style LP's was Richard Rodger's "Victory At Sea" and John Phillips Sousa's "Greatest Hits!"

Whenever the spirit moved us, (it didn't have to always be on a patriotic holiday like July 4th) my mother would play one of Sousa's "Rollicking Flag Wavers" like "Semper Fidelis," "El Capitan," "King Cotton," and of course, "Stars and Stripes Forever." Then, me and my sister would follow mom high steppin' to the music all around house. Maybe, just maybe, I'll attend Covington's "Spark in the Park" celebration this year...

It stirs up the Red, White and Blue!


Copyright 2025/Ben Bensen III

Wednesday, February 5, 2025

"An Old Aviator's Story!"

 


Long ago in a Southern California pasture amongst the wafting odors of dairy farms was the mixture of oil, hydraulic fluid and aviation fuel emanating above the runway of the Chino Air Museum. It is now known as the Planes Of Fame Air Museum, https://planesoffame.org/ .

I was a member there for many years and for many years when vintage aircraft would take off and fly away from the viewing stands and were lost from view in the heavy smog and fog.
Every first Saturday of the month, the museum would host a speaker and take up into the sky, in one of those museum pieces.
A few days ago, antique collector and admitted hoarder, Phil Bazer, showed me a few WWII aviation shoulder patches he had for years in his possession. All three were from the AVG, of the Flying Tigers days.
Louisiana boy, Claire L. Chennault, was a retired captain from the Army Air Corps who was working in China as an advisor to the Chinese Air Force when the Second Sino-Japanese War broke out in 1937. The Chinese Generalissimo Chiang Kai-Shek quickly hired Chennault to lead the training of Chinese fighter pilots.


The little winged tiger took me back to the Chino Air Museum where a small, white haired man was selling his days, in book form, with the American Volunteer Group circa 1941-42. In his hour long dissertation, two things stood out. One of those was the statement that he was shot down three different times and the fear he had of bailing out each time. Describing the feel of bullets bouncing inside the fuselage as he hid behind the armor plated seat trying to escape, was incredible.
"Flying high enough to bail out was all I could think about. There really was no other alternative," he said. "I was amazed that each time I returned safe and sound, the government gave me another plane to fly!"
The second comment was the best. According to him and documented in his bio, he was the original designer of the shark mouth on one of the P-40B Tomahawk's nose.
"Everyone loved it, but I wasn't interested in painting each and every aircraft of the AVG," he said. Not realizing the symbol would become so iconoclastic, even on aircraft that was not a P-40, he gave the design to other pilots to complete. Whoa!
Somewhere on one of my bookshelves in this studio is my autographed copy of his book... Somewhere!
First cup and then, sketching with the Lacombe Art Guild at Giddy Up!


Copyright 3025/Ben Bensen III

Sunday, January 19, 2025

"A Forgotten And Unfinished Illustration!"

"Fish Head Music"

 Good Monday, Monday Morning, all bodies.


I wonder with all of these cold weather concerns if Giddy Up will be open today!

A couple of days ago, my sister sent me a YouTube video of our friend, Reggie Scanlan, that I had not seen. Reggie is a bass guitarist with the group called The Radiators and has been for quite some time. Then, just two days ago, while scrolling around on FB I found an interview on WLAE-TV with another Radiator member, Dave Malone.

While playing around with their website, which another friend introduced me to, it dawned on me that years and years ago while attempting to imitate a rather famous illustrator's style, that I may still have that piece.

I found it!

I'm not sure why I still have it or why I never tried to complete it. The illustration is 20"x30" and was done some in mixed media, but mostly, it was done in acrylic and entitled "Fish Head Music."

I mustah got a freelance job and never went back to it!

Another warm cup!

Copyright 2025/ Ben Bensen III

Monday, January 13, 2025

Celebrating!

"Ward's Azaleas"

 Well, good Twofer "the aftermath" Tuesday Morning, all bodies.

No joking... I really wanna thank everyone for making my birthday yesterday so special. I attempted to respond to the many birthday greetings on Facebook and elsewhere, though I know missed a few comments.

So cool... The gang hanging the Lacombe Art Guild show kinda surrounded me as I set my painting down to sing Happy Birthday greetings to me... I had no idea. I wished I could've stayed, but I hired our home nurse to help out and really had things to take care of...Mostly stupid things!

When I decided to have a late lunch at my favorite place, "Lagos", word got around that I wanted a celebratory margarita for my birthday. High fives and hugs abounded when I told them it was my 75th year here on earth.

Later, the owner, Anna, who was leaving for the day, came to me and told me my lunch was "On the house!"
"Feliz Cumpleanos!"

A few more chores to do, I finally went to Rouse's to get me a seven layered doberge cake. The baker, not much taller than the actual counter, escorted me over the wondrous selection to pick one.

"No, no, no," she said, not that one. It has pink flowers on it."

"That's for girls!"

"Oh, I said... How about the one with the yellow flowers on top?"

"You don't want the one with the blue flowers?"

"Nah!" Too obvious," I said.

"Okay, sir... it's your 75th!"

Another cup...


Copyright 2025/Ben Bensen III

Happy 75th ...


 

Happy Birthday to me...all bodies!
First cup!


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Thursday, November 21, 2024

"Oh No, Not Again!"


Good "not so good" Thursday Morning, all bodies.

A week ago, on Wednesday morning, Therese fell fracturing her left tibia in three places and "crushing" her ankle. In terrible pain, Tee was rushed to the hospital and was scheduled to have surgery that night to secure her ankle with pins.

After a week at the hospital, just yesterday, she was transferred to Heritage Manor for a few days to help rehab her her leg. Her doctor, Dr.Bouvillon, thinks she is improving enough to continue with the second surgery... this time on her ankle. So, on Monday, she will be sent to AVALA for the surgery with an overnight stay and then, back to Heritage Manor for continued PT.

There is a belief that people don't fall because they are awkward or clumsy and not paying attention to their surroundings. Theory is that then fall because their bones can no longer support the body. Scary thought.

Tee will be laid up and incognito for three or more months, so I guess I will too!

First cup...


Copyright 2024/Ben Bensen III
 

Sunday, November 10, 2024

"Don't Touch That Dial", y'all.


 Usually on Saturday mornings at the coffeehouse, the younger baristas man the counter and the drive-up window. Mary, the "don't call me a barista!" barista, usually opens the place just before seven. Mario, the only male that has ever worked at GiddyUp follows shortly after and turns on the radio on Sirius to a rather "alternative" scene. It's not head bashing or heavy metal grooves, but for drinking coffee and trying to ease into the morning, it is a bit... odd!


Between 8am and 9am, the girls stroll in, and I can tell by what's on the radio by who has control of those "dials!"

The older ladies prefer the Fifties and Sixties. In that rotation is always Etta James, "A Sunday Kinda Love" even though it is Saturday. You know, Frankie Baby, Peggy Lee, Johnny Mathis, Sara Vaughn, etc.

Laura, who only now works on Saturday afternoons, always played the Beatles catalogue with a few Beach Boy tunes thrown in. I love it!

Madison, who is an early morning staple, doesn't really have a particular favorite though I can tell when she changes the channel. By her own admission, she likes music that one can "study by!"

Mary says, "Maddie, play some music, but nothing "too sleepy!"

When Isabella, the woman who had a radio program called "Girls Up Front!" arrives, suddenly, there's this ethereal, celestial, sounds, heavy with breathy reverb that, in a way, seems too perfect for this world!

Everyone is copacetic with the choices of the morning until someone goes on break...

"Quick, Mario's away, change the channel!"

No one 'cept Sandra and Mary understood my reference to the living room battles created when someone got up to change the TV channel only to lose their favorite chair in the process.

Ah, the good ole days!


Copyright 2024/Ben Bensen III


Thursday, June 20, 2024

"Piddily Pat!"

"Heartbeat, why do you skip when my baby kisses me?"

 Well, Good Saturday Morning, all bodies.

On Thursday, a cute, young nurse whose struggling with expectations of being a "baseball mom", pulled away the bandages and cleaned the area that now house my new timing device. We had fun sharing baseball stories with her.
One week earlier, I was also being entertained, at five in the morning, by another young nurse who was prepping me for my pacemaker. She was short, with long brown hair, intense eyes and a rather unique accent that Tee or I could not quite place, though she was a native of Louisiana.
It had a touch of Texas, I think!
Anyway, she's pulling away wrapping, wiping here and there with some alcohol solution, stripping away more plastic coverings to more pads, bandaids and such and depositing the many sterile debris in the first accessible place available...my crotch!
Intense in her endeavors, I try to ignore the loose fitting gown's depository that she keeps adding more stuff too.
"How many times a day do you have to go through this prepping routine," I ask.
Not missing a beat, she replies,"Oh, about ten times a day...You're the first this morning!"
"All before a "first cup"?
"Yes," she says, I have to be here early to prepare myself for the day!"
"Whoa" I said. I didn't have time for a cup either."
"Guess I'm not supposed to anyway!"
Then, her job completed, she grabs all the medical debris housed in that gown's depression and kinda stirs it all around with her hands attempting to grab it all in one fell swoop.
Oh, I thought, I think I'm in love! But, all too soon she is gone before I could express my real feelings.
Guess there was no time for "thank you's" as another nurse, probably the senior head nurse, arrived to stick some more needles in my arm.
She stuck around long enough for me to thank her!
When that nurse left, the younger one reappeared with a battery powered shaver. Thankfully, it automatically shuts off when the trigger is released and she gently places the device in you know where!
Therese and I had a few chuckles over those early morning scenarios.
"Babe, it's a good thing that I didn't have a first cup OR have time to apply my daily dose of testosterone, whew!"
Every now and then, I know it's kinda hard to tell, but I'm still alive and well...Second cup

Copyright 2024/Ben Bensen III







Therese's Brother... Living Large!

Therese's Priestly Bro!

Very sorry to report that Therese's big brother and Redemptorist priest, Fr. Gerard LaPorte, passed away on Friday, last week. Gerard was 85 years old and spent his last year at St. Clements, 300 Liguori Dr, Barnhart, MO which is not far from St. Louis.
Last September, in addition to revisiting St. Louis for more stem cell injections, we got to spend a few days with Gerard at the Mission. He seemed to enjoy his new home and the time spent with other retired Redemptorist clergy. Gerard was always a people person. He will be missed by the many folks he met and served over the years in the Irish Channel, as well as, Tee and me!

Gerard Bernard LaPorte was born in New Orleans, LA, on January 28, 1939. He and his siblings grew up around the Redemptorists at St. Alphonsus Parish, and their uncle, Alphonse Abadie, was ordained as a Redemptorist priest in 1942. After graduating from St. Alphonsus School, young Gerard entered St. Joseph’s Preparatory Seminary in Kirkwood, MO. An exceptional student with natural leadership skills, he was quite popular and a source of entertainment for his classmates, who enjoyed his wit and antics. He proceeded to novitiate at Mount St. Clement’s in DeSoto, MO and professed temporary vows on August 2, 1960. Gerry professed perpetual vows on September 2, 1963 and was ordained to the priesthood by Bishop Thomas William Murphy, C.Ss.R., D.D. at Immaculate Conception Seminary Chapel on June 29, 1965.
He had many accomplishments and assignments during his years as a Redemporist. He studied in Rome for a master’s degree in Canon Law at the Angelicum. He returned to the United States with his degree in 1968 and was appointed to the faculty of Mount St. Alphonsus Redemptorist Theologate in Esopus, NY. In addition to Canon Law, he served in the Liturgy and Comparative Religion Departments and was Director of The Collarmen Seminarian music ministry outreach. Fr. Gerry was named assistant pastor of Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church in Corpus Christi, TX, in 1972. He enjoyed pastoral ministry, and was instrumental in helping the Diocese of Corpus Christi reorganize its Matrimonial Tribunal. Three years later, he was appointed pastor of Holy Rosary Church and superior of the local community in Houma, LA. During the next six years, he helped the Diocese of Houma–Thibodaux organize a Marriage Preparation Program and served as a Matrimonial Tribunal Judge and as a member of the Arbitration Board.
Fr. Gerry was so respected by his confreres that they elected him to serve as a Consultor on the Vice Provincial Council in 1981. While serving in leadership during the next six years, he was involved in ministry planning and served as local community superior, Vocation Director and Bursar for the Vice Province of New Orleans. He served as rector and director of Holy Redeemer in Lacombe, LA during the 1986-1987 school term, and then returned to parish ministry at St. Alphonsus Parish in New Orleans, where he remained for the next 35 years. Fr. Gerry was involved in many outreach ministries serving people in need, including Beginning Experience and Caring Companions. He served on the Matrimonial Tribunal and as an Appellate Judge for the Archdiocese of New Orleans, and as a Chaplain for PEACE (Eucharistic Adoration Chapels). He volunteered for the Family Life Apostolate and earned a Master’s in Education in Counseling from the University of New Orleans in 1994, at the age of 55.
Fr. Gerry was an animating presence in the St. Alphonsus community and is remembered for reading the Times-Picayune cover-to-cover every morning and watching Jeopardy every afternoon. It was no surprise that he correctly answered most of the questions asked of contestants. He loved everything about his hometown, and was such an avid fan of the New Orleans Saints that his doctor prohibited him from watching the games to help keep his blood pressure in check.
A compassionate confessor and spiritual director, Fr. Gerry was an insightful counselor for all who sought his wisdom. Although Fr. Gerry was granted retirement status in 2009, he continued to celebrate Masses at nearby nursing homes and preside at funerals for the faithful in New Orleans until health issues necessitated his move to St. Clement’s Redemptorist Mission Community in Barnhart, MO, in 2022.

Copyright 2024/Ben Bensen III




Wednesday, April 3, 2024

"Capturing The Moment"...


 Good Morning Wednesday, y'all.


Yesterday morning driving out of 'da Bayou, I paused to put on my seatbelt and to my amazement discovered a blue heron skulking around the shallow part of the front pond. We seldom get visits from waterfowl, ducks, herons and egrets and every time we do, I am unprepared to record the visit. I just knew by the time I got iPhone out to photograph the bird, it would be disturbed and fly away.

But, not this time. The heron was obviously stalking prey, and just like seen on "Wild Kingdom", it finally flung its beak into the pond and pulled out a small fish. It gave the fish a shake or two and in short time, swallowed breakfast, spread its wings and glided on to the next tasty endeavor.

The camera never left my front pocket.

Working on my second cup at Giddy Up, a woman unloads her briefcase full of papers, her cellphone and computer directly across and facing me. We couldn't help not seeing one another, stealing glances from each other as we went about our business.

I noticed one of those glances as particularly intriguing, and then I could not stop looking at her. She kept flinging her long black hair as she spoke on the phone and then, flung it away again and again switching from one device to another.

But, one full fledged fling tilted her head to the right which elongated the length of those ebony locks, rather seductively over her shoulder and down toward the black covered computer.

For whatever reason, she held that pose for a minute or two. I decided it was time to pull out my iPhone just in case she did that one or two more times. I lost my chance with the big heron, I wasn't gonna miss another chance to capture the moment... I was visually seduced.

But, she never did!

Ten minutes after she picked up her mobile office, she acknowledged me with a smile, nodded and left, I decided to capture the moment as fleeting and futile as it seemed.

Inspiration is like that. A charcoal stick was messy, but the perfect tool for the task... that, and, a kneaded eraser.

Still hoping for another cup!

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